Parents Ko respect Kaise De

Parents Ko respect Kaise De


kabhee-kabhee, hamen lagata hai ki hamaare maata-pita hamen samajh nahin sakate hain aur ve hamaaree khushee ke raaste mein aa jaate hain. yahee kaaran hai ki ham mein se kaee ne kisee samay apane maata-pita ke khilaaph vidroh ka anubhav kiya hai, khaasakar jab ham abhee bhee pratispardhee hain.

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haalaanki, hamen yah nahin bhoolana chaahie ki hamaare maata-pita hamen pyaar karate hain, aur ve jo chaahate hain vah hamaare lie sabase achchha. kaee baar jab ve bahut sakht lagate hain, to ve hamen sambhaavit nukasaan se bachaana chaahate hain. iseelie, unhen hamaaree samajh aur sammaan kee jaroorat hai.

to, ham unhen dikha sakate hain ki ham unase pyaar karate hain aur unhen importance dete hain? yahaan 40 tareeke die gae hain jo aapako apane maata-pita ke prati respect dikhaane mein help kar sakate hain.

1. Create positive thoughts about your parents

hamari feelings hamaare thoughts se prabhaavit hotee hain. isalie, yadi aap apane maata-pita ke lie adhik samajhadaar banana chaahate hain, to aapako unake baare mein sakaaraatmak sochakar shuruaat karanee chaahie.


2. Understand where they are coming from

aap aur aapake maata-pita ke beech kee peedhee ke antar ke baare mein khule dimaag se sochen. yah bhee jaan len ki aapake saath kaam karate time ve apane anubhavon se nirdeshit hote hain.


3. Talk to them constantly

Communication aapako apane maata-pita ke thoughts ko samajhane mein help kar sakata hai. yah parivaar ke roop mein aapake sambandh ko bhee majaboot karega.


4. Express your gratitude towards them

hamesha apane maata-pita ko unake balidaanon aur aapake lie unake dvaara kee gaee har cheej ke lie dhanyavaad dene ke lie time nikaale. aap unhen un sabhee ke lie kabhee itana aap nahin kar sakate jitna  unhonne aapake lie kia hain.


5. Appreciate every little thing you have done for them

dhanyavaad kahane ke saath, un cheezon ke lie unakee prashansa karen, jinakee ve madad karate hain aur aapako pyaar mahasoos karate hain. aapakee prashansa unake lie bahut maayane rakhatee hai.


6. Follow the rules of their home (especially if you still live with them)

aapako ghar ke pramukh ke roop mein unake adhikaar ka respect karane kee aavashyakata hai. yahee kaaran hai ki jab tak aap baahar nahin jaana chaahate hain aur apane dam par jeena chaahate hain, tab tak unake ghar ke niyamon ka paalan karana aapakee jeevant pareeksha hai.


7. When you are with them, look at your language

beimaanee shabdon ko kahane se, khaasakar jab aapake maata-pita aasapaas hon. unase baat karate samay aapako bhee vinamr hona chaahie.


8. Practice to say 'please'

yadi aisee koee cheej hai, jisakee aapako madad karanee chaahie, jaise tabal par khaana paas karana, hamesha jaadoo shabd please ka upayog karana yaad rakhen.


9. Respect their decisions

aapake maata-pita ke kuchh nirnay ho sakate hain jinase aap sahamat nahin hain. aap un logon ke baare mein apane vichaar bataane kee koshish kar sakate hain, lekin yadi ve aapake vichaaron ko sveekaar nahin karate hain, to unhen sveekaar karen aur unaka sammaan karen.


10. Prioritize them on friends and lover / girlfriend 

hamesha apane parivaar, vishesh roop se apane maata-pita, any logon se oopar rakhen. dost aur boyaphrend / garlaphrend aa sakate hain aur ja sakate hain, lekin aapaka parivaar hamesha ke lie hai.


11. Do not talk back

mera maanana ​​hai ki yadi aap apane paksh ko samajhane kee aavashyakata hai to apane maata-pita ke lie tark karana theek hai. haalaanki, yah komal aur respectful tareeke se karen - unake saath bahas na karen aur apane vichaar thopen. agar ve aapako chup rahane ke lie kahate hain, to kuchh bhee na kahen.


12. Keep your tone low

apane parents se baat karate time, hamesha apane svaroop ka paalan karen. aapako unhen chaaron or bos kee tarah aavaaj nahin karanee chaahie.


13. Be humble and say sorry

jab aap apane parents ke saath galataphahamee ho, tab bhee vinamr rahen, agar aapako lagata hai ki yah aapakee galatee nahin hai. sabase pahale pahunchen aur maaphee maangen.


14. Do not cross your arms while talking to them

unake saamane apanee baahon ko paar karana, bhale hee aap shaanti se kisee baat par charcha kar rahe hon, yah dikhaane ke samaan hai ki aap samaan star ke hain. ya yah aapake dvaara bataee gaee baaton ke prati avagya bhee dikha sakata hai.


15. Do not bring past issues in front

kaee baar jab aap aur aapake maata-pita galataphahamee mein ho jaate hain, to pahale se hal kie gae puraane muddon ko laane se bachate hain. aap itihaasakaar nahin hain.


16. Avoid lying to them

kabhee-kabhee ham jhooth bolate hain kyonki ham nahin chaahate hain ki hamaare maata-pita hamase niraash hon. haalaanki, jis kshan aap un jhoothon ko cover nahin kar sakate, ve adhik niraash honge.


17. Do not break their trust

# 16 ke sambandh mein, unaka vishvaas banae rakhane ke sabase achchhe tareekon mein se ek hai jisase ham unhen apana sammaan dete hain aur unake prati pyaar dikha sakate hain. isalie, un cheejon ko karane se bach sakate hain jo ise tod sakate hain.

18. Show your friends and special people to them

jab aap un logon ka parichay dete hain, jinhen aap aamataur par apane maata-pita ke saath baahar jaate hain, to yah unhen vaastav mein moolyavaan anubhav deta hai.  isase unhen maanasik shaanti bhee milegee, kyonki ve jaanate hain ki aap ghar se baahar kab hain.


19. Open about your problems

aapake maata-pita kee aavashyakata aur vishvasaneey mahasoos karana chaahate hain. apane jeevan mein kya ho raha hai, is baare mein unase khul kar baat karen.


20. Listen to their advice

aapake maata-pita aapako keval vahee paraamarsh denge jo ve sochate hain ki aapake lie sabase achchha hai. unakee salaah ko sveekaar karane aur karane ka matalab hai ki aap unake shabdon ko mahatv dete hain.


21. Ask his opinion when making a big decision

jab aap aisa karate hain, to aapako na keval buddhimaan aur eemaanadaar raay milatee hai, balki aap apane maata-pita ke aatmasammaan ko bhee badhaate hain. aap unhen moolyavaan mahasoos kar rahe hain.

22. Help with household chores

yadi aap abhee bhee apane maata-pita ke saath rah rahe hain, to hamesha ghar ke aasapaas help karane ke lie time nikaal den chaahe aap kitane busy hon. aap nahin chaahate ki ve ghar ke bojh ko dhoen.


23. Do not bite them

jab ve baat kar rahe hon, tab bhee vinamr hokar na bolen, bhale hee aap unakee baaton se asahamat hon. pahale unhen khatm kar do.


24. Do not complain

badabada se shaadee, lekin apane maata-pita ko vinamr man se maanen. yadi aapako ghar mein ek chor ko kursee jaatee hai, ya aapako 8 baje se pahale ghar aane ke lie kaha jaata hai, to yah shikaayat ke bina.


25. Present them

unhen keval saral prastut karane se unhen khushee hogee, isalie nahin ki aap unhen kuchh dete hain, balki isalie kyonki ve vishesh mahasoos karate hain aur yaad karate hain.


26. Do not do things that can disturb them

yahaan tak ki yadi aap apane svayan ke hain, to aapako bhee apane maata-pita kee bhaavanaon ke prati sanvedanasheel hona hoga. ve aapakee dekhabhaal karate hain aur jab aap khataranaak ya asvasth hote hain to ve aasaanee se chintit ho jaate hain.


27. Do not laugh at their mistakes

aapake maata-pita keval insaan hain, aur ve bhee galatiyaan karate hain. unake cheep-aps ka mazaak banaakar unhen sharminda na karen.


28. Take the time to ask how they are doing

ve kathin situations se bhee guzarate hain, aur aamataur par ve ise apane aap tak hee rakhate hain. un par jaanch karane ke lie samay nirdhaarit karen, aur unhen yah mahasoos karana hoga ki aap kaisa mahasoos karate hain.


29. Treat them to a date

aisa karane par aap # 28 kar sakate hain. apane maata-pita ko ek samay mein ek baar det karane ke lie ek samay nirdhaarit karen, taaki aap bhee tokaree kar saken.


30. When they are around, focus your attention on them

har baar jab aap apane parents ke saath hote hain, to teekshnata se, apane phesabuk kee jaanch karen ya apane phon par gem chalaen. unake saath baatacheet karake aur chaukas saath unake saath apana adhikaansh samay banaen.


31. Respect their opinions and principles

aapake maata-pita se alag-alag vishvaas, vichaar aur siddhaant ho sakate hain, lekin aapako yah bataane ka koee adhikaar nahin hai ki ve galat hain. jo aap sahee samajh rahe hain, un par jor na den.


32. Visit them regularly

yadi aap apane maata-pita se door rahate hain, to aap niyamit roop se unake paas jaane ka prayaas karen, haalaanki keval aap kaam me busy hain. ve nishchit roop se aapako yaad karate hain aur akele mahasoos karate hain yadi aap unhen yaad nahin karate hain.


33. Include them in family activities

yadi aapaka apana parivaar pahale se hai, to unhen parivaar ke jokhimon aur spardon mein aamantrit karana na karana hoga.


34. Spend special occasions with them if possible

niyamit roop se unake paas jaane ke alaava, ise apane maata-pita ke janmadin ya krisamas ya nae saal kee poorv sandhya jaise vishesh paarivaarik avasaron ke dauraan upasthit rahane ke lie ek parampara banaen. ye avasar aapake lie tabhee saarthak hoga jab aap aasapaas honge.


35. Be patient with them when they are old

jab aap ek bachcha the aur jab aap ek jiddee kishor the, tab ve har baar aapake saath nakhare karate the. ab, unake prati unakee samajh ko vyaapak banaane kee aapakee baaree hai.


36. Serve as much as you can

unake saath dhairy rakhane ke saath-saath, apane maata-pita kee seva karane ke avasar bhee len. aap unhen kabhee bhee aapake lie unake balidaanon ke lie nahin kiya hai, lekin kam se kam aap isake maadhyam se apana aabhaar prakat kar sakate hain.


37. Be proud of them

yahaan tak ki yadi aapake maata-pita dhanee charitr ya pratishthit peshevar nahin hain, to bhee ve sammaanit hone ke yogy hain. unhonne aapako apanee aavashyakataon ko dene aur ek achchhe naagarik ke roop mein oopar uthaane ke lie apana pradarshan diya hai.


38. Show your affection by embracing and kissing them

apane aap ko unase sharminda mat karo. aapake gale lagane aur choomane se pata chalata hai ki aap apane maata-pita ke roop mein unake lie kitane aabhaaree hain.


39. Tell them that you love them as much as possible

haan, aap ise kaaryon ke saath dikha sakate hain, lekin yah tab bhee alag hai jab aap unhen bataate hain. yah unake kaanon ko sangeet hai.

40. Be the best you can be

sabase achchha upahaar jo aap apane maata-pita ko de sakate hain vah aapakee jindagee pooree tarah se jeeya hai. achchhe sanskaaron ke saath aapako saphal hote dekhakar unhen lagega ki unhonne sabase achchhe maata-pita banane ke lie apane bulaave ko poora kiya hai. un par kaaboo karen.
aap unhen paakar dhany hain
aapake maata-pita paripoorn nahin hain. kaee baar ve aapako bura mahasoos karavaate hain, aur aap chaahate hain ki aap ek alag parivaar mein paida hue hon. haalaanki, yaad rakhen ki sabhee bachchon ko ghar mein paida hone aur bada hone ka adhikaar nahin tha. unamen se kuchh ke paas is duniya kee jhalak bhee nahin thee, kyonki unake maata-pita ne unhen jeene ka mauka nahin diya. kuchh ko tab chhod diya gaya jab ve abhee bhee chhote the, kyonki unake maata-pita unakee dekhabhaal karane kee jimmedaaree nahin le sakate the.

apane maata-pita ke pyaar aur aapake lie balidaanon ke lie aabhaaree rahen. ve badale mein pyaar aur sammaanit hone ke laayak hain
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