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How To Make People Like You By Dale Carnegie?

How To Make People Like You ?

Every person think how to influence any people like teachers,boss,friends etc.
But they could not get a best way as many people do not know about the book of Dale carnegie.
So I thought I can share some topics of these books on my site for help of people.
here we are sharing to six ways to make people like you. It way given by dale carnegie.

#Principle-1 "Become Genuinely Interested In Other People"

if you want others people to like you,If you want develop real friendships,if you want to help others at the same time as you help yourself,keep this principle in mind.

Dale carnegie

#Principle-2 "Smile"

your smile is a massenger of your good will. Your smile brightness the lives of all who see it. It creates happinees in the home,fosters good will in a business, and is the contesting of friends.
It is rest to the weary,daylight to the discouraged,sunshine to the sad, and Nature's best antidote for trouble.

#Principle-3 "Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.

The name sets the individual apart; it makes him or her unique among all others.The information we are imparting or the request we are making takes on a special importance when we approach  the situation  with the name of the individual. From the waitress to the senior executive,the name wil work magic as we deal with others.
We should be aware of the magic contained in a name and realise that this single item is wholly and completely owned by the person with whom we are dealing.... and nobody else.
When you are calling any person with her name he impress with you. It is a very simple way to impress any person.
We should never forget it.

#Principle-4 "Be a Good Listener .Encourage others to talk about themselves."

If you aspire to be a good conversationalist ,be an attentive listener.To be interesting,be interested Ask questions that about person's wil enjoy answering. Encourage  them to talk about themselves and their accomplishments.
Remember that the people you are talking to are a hundred times more interested in themselves and their wants and problems than they are in you and your problems.

#Principle-5 " Talk in Terms of Others Person's Interests."

#Principle-6 "Make the Other Person Feel Important-and do it Sincerely. "

The life of many a person could probably be changed if only someone would make him feel important.
Remember what Emerson said:everything man I meet is my superior in some day. In that,I learn of him.
The Universal truth is that almost all the people you meet feel themselves superior to you in some way,and a sure day to their hearts is to let theme realise in some subtle way that you realise their importance,and recognise it Sincerely.

Fundamental Techniques In Handling People

  • Don't criticise,condemn or complain
  • Give honest and sincere appreciation.
  • Arouse in the Other Person an eager want.

How To win People to Your way of Thinking.

  • The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
  • Show respect for the Other person's opinions.Never say,'You're wrong.'
  • If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically. 
  • Begin in a friendly way.
  • Get the Other Person saying 'yes,yes'imediately.
  • Let the Other Person do a great deal of the talking.
  • Let the Other Person Feel that the idea is his or hers.
  • Try honesty to see things from the Other person's point of view. 
  • Be symphatically with the Other person's ideas and desires.
  • Appeal to the nobler motives.
  • Dramatize your ideas.
  • Throw down a challenge.

Be a leader :How to change people without  giving offence or arousing  resentment

  • Begin with praise and honest appreciation.  
  • Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly. 
  • Talk about your own mistakes before criticising the Other Person. 
  •  Ask questions instead of giving direct orders. 
  •  Let the Other person save face. 
  •  Praise the slightest improvement and praise every Improvement.Be 'hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise. 
  •  Give the Other person a fine reputation to live up to. 
  • Use encouragement. Make the fault seen easy to correct. 
  •  Make the Other Person happy about doing the thing you suggest.  

Now I am stopping the principle. I think it will good for you.
You spend your time on my site so thank you.

Success Kaise Ho ? Secret of Success?

Secret of Success / Kaise Ho Success

sabhi log bat karte rahate hai ki kaise success ho? Kya kare successful hone ke liye?

aaj phir se apka swagat hai mere website arifabid.com.aaj mai is post me ye batane wala hun ki success kaise ho.success hone ke ek best tips batayenge jo apke liye janana aur follow karna bahut hi important hai.jab baby janm leta hai to usake parents usake future ke sapne dhekhne lagate hai ki mera beta ye bnega vo bnega.bahut sari sapne aate hai.Aur jab ladke bade hote hai to vo bhi success hone ke liye apne study pe concentrate karte hai.Taki vo apne aim ko achieve kar sake.

secret of success

But jo bade log hai jo business kar rahe hai unake success hone ka ek aur tips hai unako apne work se prem hona chahiye.unako apne kam ko puri mehnat aur imandari ke sath karna chahiye.keval mehnat karne se aap success nahi ho jayenge isake liye apko kuch aur tips ko dhyan dena hoga aur follow karna hoga.Jisake bare me is post me explain kiya gaya hai.Aap is post ko dhyan se padhe.

Secret of Success

Kya hai success hona,jab aap apne aim ko achieve kar lete ho to kya aap isako success bolate ho.kya hai ye success jab aap aur hm success ko samajhenge nahi to success kaise honge dosto.apko bhi pata hai kisi kam ko hm tabhi kar sakate hai jab hmko usake bare me thodi knowledge hogi.To dosto success hone ke liye apko bhi success ko samajhna hoga.to aiye pahale success ko samajhate hai kya hai success.

What is Success

simple hai success ki koi limit nahi hoti.aap kise success manate ho.ise hi na ki jab koi apne goal ko achieve kar liya to success ho gaya.But isako success nahi bolate.
Ek example deta hun.
mana aap ek doctor bnana chahate hai aur jab aap doctor bn jate hai to aap sochate hai aap success ho gaye to aap bilkul galat hai maine apko pahale hi bata diya hai success hone ki koi limit nahi hoti hai.to success kya hai apke man me ye question bar bar aa raha hai.to dhyan de aap jis field me jate ho us field me better karte jao sabse better puri world me better.aur apne life me age badhate jao. Ye success hai.

ek aur example deta hun.

jab aap doctor bn jate hai to aap ab pure world ke better doctor bn ke dikhao.aur jab pure world ke sabse better doctor banoge to aap kuch aur better karne ke liye sochane lagenge.ese hi aap kuch na kuch naya karte rahoge.
To dosto success hone ka sidha sa aur bahut simple sa matlab hai "aage badhate jao" kabhi bhi har na mano aage badhate jao-badhate jao.

Make Opportunities 

aap agar sochate hai ki hmare hato ke lakiro me ya apke kismat me success hona likha hi nahi hai to aap bilkul galat soch rahe hai.success kisi ke kismat me likhi nahi hoti apko khud opportunity banani hoti hai jisame aap apne goal ko achieve kar aage badhate rahe.
ek bahut hi better motivate karne wali thought apke sath share karta hun.is thought ko sandeep maheshwari ne diya hai jo images bajaar company ke founder hai aur ye sath hi sath world best interprenier hai.ye logo ko motivate bhi karte hai.
"agar ye duniya kahati hai tere hato ke lakiro me hi kami to mai apne hatho ki lakiro ko kyo nahi badal sakata"
aaj tak jitane bhi successful hue vo bhi hmare aur apke tarah hi the vo bhi bahut hi kamjor the study me.but unhone better kar dikhaya apne success aur failyear ko lekar aage badhate rahe.
agar apko apne goal ko achieve karna hai to apko us goal ko pane ke liye oppurtunity ko create karna hoga tabhi aap apne goal ko achieve kar payenge.
Example-agar aap IIT entrance exam me top karna chahte ho to aapko pata hai jab tak aap puri better hard work nahi karoge to aap top nahi kar paoge.mtlab aapke hath me hai apko apne aim ko achieve karna hai ya nahi aap chahe to apne aim ko pa sakate hai.Bas apko usake liye better preparation karna hoga.

Kabhi Har Na Mane

jab tak aap haroge nahi tab tak aap sabse better karoge bhi nahi.harane se na dare.sanghars karte rahe.kyoki aap bhi janate hai jo sabse jyada hara aaj wahi log successful hue hai.agar aap fail hote hai to isaka matlab hai.First Attempt in Life..

example:-
man lete hai aap cricket khel rahe ho but pichhe koi wicket nahi hai aur na koi player hai bs ek boller hai jo boll fec raha hai.
Ab aap samajh le jo ball hai vo opportunity hai aur aap life me sanghars kar rahe ho.
ek ball aata hai aap bat gumate ho ball chut jati hai.phir ek dusara ball ata hai aap bat gumate ho bhi ball chut jati hai aap apne life me fail hote ja rahe ho.but aap har nahi man rahe ho ab apko is cricket means life ka game samajh me aa gaya hai ab phir dusara ball aata hai aap bat gumate ho aur marte ho six. Dekha maja aaya na.is example ka matlb tha ye life ek ek oppurtunity apko deti jayegi aur apko use achieve karna hoga agar aaj nahi kar pate ho to kal jarur kar loge kyoki ab apko es life ka game samajh me aa gaya hai aur ab jab koi oppurtunity aayegi use aap achieve kar loge.aur aage badhate chale jaoge.apko har nahi manana hai apko aage badate rahana hai.
maine kha na is life ke game me koi wicket nahi hota hai.matalb aap chaho to is life ke khel me kabhi out nahi ho sakate jab tak aap is maidan ko chhod kar bhag nahi jate.

Learn from Mestake

aap jab koi work kar rahe ho aur usame apko success nahi milati hai to aap niras na ho.but aap pata karo ki kya problem hai kon si kami hai jisake wajah se aap success nahi ho pa rahe ho.us problem ko samajho aur phir dubara mehanat karo agar phir fail hote ho to phir us galati ko pakdo jisake wajah se esa ho raha hai phir us galti ko thic karke work karo.apko success jarur milegi.kahne ka matalab hai apko kabhi bhi har nahi manana chahiye.aap apne galatiyo se sikh le aur phir vaisi galati kabhi na kare.

Patience & Courage

aap apne courage ko km na hone de apne atm vishvas ko bnaye rakhe isako tutane na de.aur kisi bhi field me jald success nahi milata usake liye apko bahut hi hard work karna hota hai to isiliye aap koi bhi kam patience rakh kar kare.us field ko samajhe jisme aap jana chahate hai aur mehanat kare apko success jarur milegi.

aap sub kuch possible kar sakate hai.agar aap soch lete hai mere liye ye asan hai to vo chij apke liye asan hogi aur agar aap soch lete hai mere liye ye hard hai to vo chij apke liye hmesa hard hi hogi aur kuch time bad apke liye impossible ho jayegi.
Success hona ka niyam universal hai.agar aap mehnat karte rahe to apko success jarur milegi.
to friends apko meri ye post kaisi lagi comment me jarur bataye aur is post ko apne friends ke sath share karna na bhule.

student-life-vs-married-life 

Student Life vs Married Life

Student Life vs Married Life

hm students hi apne country ke future ko better banate hai. Aaj hm bat karenge ki students ki life aur ek married life me kaun sa better hai.Students ka sabse better property hoti hai question karna.jo students question nahi karte,kuch janane ki echchcha nahi rakhate vo kabhi bhi better success nahi hote hai.aur students hi apne married life ko better bnate hai.ye student life hi decide karta hai ki apki married life kaisi hogi.agar studet aaj ko better bnate hai to unka married life better hoga.unka future better hoga.
To chaliye ab apne topic par aate hai.

Students Life

jab bhi koi child janm lete hai to kuch years ke bad school jane lagate hai.aur apne aim ke sapne dekhane lagate hai ki muje engineer ya doctor ya D.M. Banana hai.jis student ki jisame ruchi hoti hai vo us field me jane ki sapne dekhate hai.mai yhan kuch students ki quality ko apke sath sbare kar rahan hun.

students

1-Tention Free

students ki life tention se free aur ek better life hoti hai.students ko only apne education par concentrate karna hota hai. Aur apne aim ko pane ke liye hard work karna hota hai.aur students ye work apne future ko better karne ke liye bahut achchchi tarah se karte hai.

2-Do Something New

students always kuch alag karne ki sochate hai taki apni power ko show kare.teachers jan paye ki ye better ladka hai is ladke par more focus dena chahiye.aur ese students ko hi teacher better bnate hai unako gyan dete hai.jo students padhne ki hobby rakhate hai teachers bhi unahi ladko par focus karte hai.aur jo ladke bas galat kam karte hai unako suggestion dete hai ki babu dekho padhai par mn lagao apne mind ko bhtakane na do.Tabhi apne future ko beyter kar payenge.

3-Kuch Nya Sikhane Ki Ekchcha Rakhna

ye student ki sabse best quality hoti hai.kuch new janane ki kosis karna,question karna.isase hi students ki pahchan hoti hai.jo question nahi karta vo student kaisa.

4-Friend Groupe

agar aap bhi student hai to apke friends honge hi ek groupe hoga hi friends ka.Study me kamjor ladake Best students se dosti karte hai taki vo bhi us ladke se kuch naya sikhe.Aur vo bhi study me tej ho sake.Aur is tarah ek friend groupe bn jata hai.

5-Habit

students ki ek aur habbit hoti hai ki agar koi unake pachchch me kuch bolata hai to vo unase prem karte hai aur jo unake opposite side me bolata hai students unase ghrina karne lagate hai.ye chote students ki ek simple quality hoti hai jo bade hone par dhire dhire khatm ho jati hai.Inako koi kadvi bat bahut jald buri lag jati aur koi achchi bat bahut jald achchchi lag jati hai.

6-Attraction of Love

students me attraction ki quality more hoti hai.isiliye girls boys bahut jyada ek dusare ki taraf attrac hote hai aur bina luch jyada soche hi ek dusare ko propose kar dete hai.aur love ki es attraction me kho jate hai.jo students in love ke chakkaro se apne apko bacha lete hai vo better kar jate hai kyoki unako only apne education par concentrate karna hota hai.aur apne aim ko kaise achieve karna hota hai isake bare me sochna hota hai.

7-Do Mistake

students ki ye bhi ek quality hoti hai ki vo galati karta hai. But vo students better hote hai jo apne galatiyo se sikhta hai aur phir yesi galati nahi doharata hai.to apne galatiyo se sikhiye aur aage badate jaiye.Life me prpblem nahi aayegi to aap ese hi kamjor ho jayenge.jo problems aati hai unase aap har na mane.us probmem ko katm karne ke bare me sochiye.

Married Life

esi life better tabhi hoti hai jab aap apne student life me better kiye hote hai agar nahi kiye hote hai to bhi aap apne married life ko better bna sakate hai.Bas apko apne kam se prem Karna hai agar apko apne work se prem hai to aap us field me bhi better ho sakate hai.bas apko mehanat karni hai.

couple

jab students apni study complete kar lete hai to marriege ke bare me sochate hai ab unahe ek life partner ki jarurat hoti hai jo unahe pyar kare aur unaki presaniyo ko samajhe aur unaki hmesa sath de. Aur is tarah Unaki relation pakka karke marriege kar diya jata hai.
jo ladako relationship me hote hai vo love marriege kar lete hai.jab apka martiege ho jsta hai to isi life ko married life kahate hsi.married life ke kuch quakity hai jo niche diye gaye hai.

1-Jimmedar Hona

jab apki marriege ho jati hai to aap jimmedar ho jata hai ab apko only apne par dhyan nahi apni wife apni puri family ke jarurato par dhyan dena hota hai.apki jimmedariya apki family ke prati badh jati hai.

2-Family Ke Sabhi Member Ki Jarurato Par Dhyan Dena

ab aap bade ho gaye hai.apko achcha aur bura ka knowmedge to hai hi ab apko apni jarurato ko puri karne se pahle apne family member ki jarurato ko pura karna hota hai.unako kush rakhna hota hai.

3-Apne Childs Par Focus Karna

ek married life ki ye bhi bahut badi jimmedari hoti hai ki wife and husband apne bachcho par dhyan de unake life ke bare me soche.Unako achchhi siksha de,achchhi sikh de.Taki unake bachche ek achchhe insan bn sake.kyoki ek father mother hi apne bachcho ka pahla teacher hota hai jo unahe achchhai aur burai ka gyan deta hai.kya achcha hota hai aur kya bura hota hai apne bachcho ko btana hota hai.

4-Problems Ko Face Karna

married life me bahut se probem aati hai jaise family me jhgada ya money probem jinako apko face karke khtam karna hota hai aur apne puri famiky ko bandhkar rakhna hota hai ek jut hokar rahana hota hai.
apko sabhi kamo ko behtar karna hota hai.aur kabhi kusi aur kabhi gm me apne apko aur apne family ko samabhalna padta hai.yahi ek married life ki jimmedariya hoti hai.jinako sabhi ko follow karna hota hai.

Ye life bahut hi better hota hai jisne apne life ko better kar liya unake liye ye life swarg hota hai aur jin logo ne kuch achcha nahi kar paye unake liye ye life jahar ho jati hai.To dosto is life ko khulakar jio kyoki ye zindagi dubara nahi milane wali.
Aaj ke is ka yahi maksad rmtha ki apko bataya jaye ki ek student life aur ek married life Kaisi hoti hai isame hmari aur apki jimmedariya kya hoti hai.
to friends apko meri ye post kaisi lagi comments me jarur bataye aur is post ko apne friends ke sath jarur share kare.

Maine Blogging Karke Kya Sikha ?

Kya Shikha Blogging Karke?

aaj mere website arifabid.com par 100 post complete ho gaye hai.Aaj mai bahut khus hun kyoki mere blog par 100 post ho chuke hai.blogging karna mera passion hai.mai logo ki help karna chahta hun.aur isiliye maine blogging start ki thi taki ham jyada se jyada logo ki help kar sake aur aaj hm kar rahe hai apne blog ki post ke dvara.

Maine Blogging Karke kya sikha yahi is post me btane wala hun.maximum bloggers blogging me safal nahi ho pate hai jab unako earnning nahi hoti hai to blogging chhod dete hai. Aap sochiye bina mehanat kiye apko safalata mil jayegi kya aap soch rahe hai ki aaj blog bnaya aur kal se earnuing start ho jaye to esa bilkul bhi nahi ho sakata.bina mehnat kiye apko safalata nahi milane wali.
safalata rato rat nahi milati safal hone ke liye utani mehnat karni hoti hai.aap apne field me tabhi success ho sakate hai jab apko apne work se pyar rahega.yahi pyar apko apke success tak apko le jayegi.

maine blogging se kya sikha.

SAFAL HONE KE LIYE EK DRIDH EKCHCHA HONI CHAHIYE.
apne work ko apna passion bnaiye aur blogging paise ke liye nahi dusaro ki help ke lijiye kijiye tabhi aap success ho payenge.jab apke blog par traffic hogi tabhi earning hogi aur apke blog par traffic bhi tabhi hogi jab aap apne visitors ke liye kuch naya karoge kuch tips bataoge.kyoki sabhi ko kuch naya janane ka man karta hai.isiliye aap apne blog visitors ke liye naye naye topics par posts likhiye.

aap bhi blogging kar rahe hai mai bhi blogging kar raha hun hmane bahut se problem ko solve kiya hai blogging me.aur bahut kuch sikha hai.

Maine Blogging Se Kya Sikha

mai three month se blogging kar raha hun aur maine bahut kuch sikha blogging se kuch bate apke sath bhi share kar raha hun.

1-Dusaro Ka Bhala

agar aap dusaro ka bhala nahi karenge,nahi sochenge to apka bhi bhala nahi hoga.aaap apne liye nahi visitors ke liye post likhiye.maine blogging se ye sikha ki post chahe kitna bhi chota kyo na ho usame jo bate hai vo top motivate karne wali honi chahiye.jise padhate hi logo ko apka blog aur pasand aa jaye.hmare post ke content hi hmare liye bahut important hota hai.hame apni writing skill ko better karte rahna chahiye.

2-Hmesa Kuch Nya Kare

aap apne blog par always daily post karte honge.but apne kabhi socha hai post bhi only ek hi topic par na kare kuch aur topics par kare.kyoki only ek hi topic ki posts ko padhkar koi bhi bor ho jata hai.aap hmesa kuch nya kare kuch naya topic par post kare.

3-Aage Badhane Ki Echchcha,Kuch Naya Sikhane Ki Echchcha

hamesa aage badhne ke bare me soche ye kabhi na soche ki mai to safal ho gaya hun ab muje kya karna hai nahi ye soch apko bahut jald hi niche gira degi.hmesa aage badhate rahne ke bare me sochiye.mn me ye sochiye ki hmesa kuch naya soche taki apka knowledge aur badhe.taki aap apne visitors ke liye kuch better kar sake.

4- Kabhi Har Na Mane

apko bhi pata hoga blogging me kitani presaniya aayi hogi apko.muje bhi aayi hai aur maine un problems ko dur kiya kabhi bhi har nahi mana.thoda mayus hua but mai janta hun mayus hone se kuch achchcha bhi nahi hoga isase better hai us problem ko hmesa ke liye khatam kar diya jaye.presaniya to hmesa aati rahegi.bina problem ke ye life kaisa isame maja hi nahi aayega.
ek bar jis kam ko than lijiye ki muje ye karna hai to bus karna hai chahe muje isake liye kitani bhi takleef kyo na ho.mai in problem ko sahne ke liye taiyar hun.
mai abhi blogging me success nahi hua hun.but mai mehnat kar rahan hun ki mai bhi ek best blogger ban jayun.aur jyada se jyada logo ki help kar saku.
to dosto aaj ke post me itana hi.apko meri ye post achchchi lagi hoto apne friends ke sath jarur share kare.aur apne bare me comment me bataye ki apne kya kya sikha blogging karne se.

Student life ki sabse badi problem kya hai

Student life ki sabse badi problem kya hai ?

Hi Friends

aaj phir se apka swagat hai.mere website arifabid.com par ye ek hindi website hai.aaj mai apke liye ek esa post lekar aya hu jo all students ke liye bahut hi important hai kyoki aaj ham students ki bahut hi badi problem ke bare me bat kar rahe hai.aap is post ko padhkar jan jaoge ki apkpadhai me man Kyo nahi lag rha hai ?
Vo kaun si problem hai jisake wajah se students ki life kharab ho rahi hai ?

Bahut se student hai padhai me bahut intelligent hai par jaise hi unka age 15 years hota hai vo student batkne lagte hai.or jo student apne apko control karke apne pdhai pe dhyan de pata hai vahi student success hota hai.yesi bhatkane wali bahut si object hai jaise nsha ,mobile,girl,bad friendship etc.in sabke chakkr me student padkar apni life kharab kar lete hai.ab aap soch rahe honge maine girls ko kyo laya is topic me to mai apko bata deta un kyoki boys girls ki taraf hi attract ho rahe hai aur agar unaka breakup ho jata hai to maximum ladke itna adhik disturb ho jate hai jisase unka education par bahut hi wrong effect padta hai.Maximum girls hi breakup karti hai isiliye kyoki unka attraction hota hai ya koi bahut badi reasion.jisake wajah se girls esa karti hai.Girls ko jyada effect nahi padta kyoki unaki emotion leval kam aur ladko ki adhik hoti hai.
to dosto aap in sabhi wrong chijo se bachhane ke liye maine apke liye ye post likhi hai.aap es post ko dhyan se padhe.

Student

ye kuch topic hai jiske vajah se student ki life kharab ho rahi hai.

Love and Attraction of Boys and Girls

jaise hi students ka age 15 years se adhik hota jata hai.uname bahut teji se growth hormones me changing hota hai.Jisase unake thinking,behaviour me bahut sare changes hote hai.Aur uname local love means attraction ki feelings aane lagati hai.Aur vo attraction me padte ja rahe hai.
ladkiya,ladko ki taraf / ladke ladkiyo ki taraf attract ho rahe hai.or unko lagta hai ki ye unka pyar hai its only attraction.yah pyar nhi unka ek dusre ke liye attraction hai.ye bahut jald khatam bhi ho jata hai.but agar aap unse ye khoge ki ye love nahi hai to vo apki ek bat nahi sunene kyoki vo is attraction me pad gaye hai.aur jab tak unka age 18-19 years tak nahi hota hai unako ye love hi lagta hai.But apko dhire dhire sab samajh aa jayega.

Student Life Ki Sabse Badi Problem Kya Hai?             

to dosto ab topic par aa hi gaye hai to apse kuch question hai.
aap kisi girl ya boy ko jise aap like karte hai use Apka mn kyo kiss karne ke liye karta hai?
Aap apni gf ya bf ko kyo lage lagana chahte ho?
Aap usako kyo bar-bar touch karte ho?
Aap usake sath time kyo spend karna chahte ho?

kya ye sab karna apke liye bahut hi important hai kya apka education study apke liye koi mayne nahi rakhta.aap sb jante hue bhi esa kar rahe ho.Ye sab apke liye important nahi apke study ke siva.aap isiliye esa kar rahe ho kyoki apka mind aap par habi ho chuka hai aap apne mind ko control nahi kar pa rahe hai.
jo question jo apko maine upar diya tha uska answer hai [ Sexual Thinking ]

Sexual Thinking means Sex ke bare me sochana aur students ki sabse badi problem yahi hai. Kyoki ye age hi esa hai is time mind ka jo concentration hota hai vo low hota hai jisase ye thinking apke upar habi ho jati hai.

Jisake karan sabhi students sex ki taraf attract ho rahe hai.jisse vo apne apko ye sab sochne par control nahi kar pa rahe hai quki ye ege hi esa hai.Is age me hmare body ke growth hormones me teji se changes hota hai isiliye jayaada ladke-ladkiya apne apko control nahi kar paate hai.
aap logo ne sayad dhyan diya hoga jab aap log kahi hote hai ya mobile use kar rahe hote hai to budhe log kya kahte hai babu yahi time hai padhne ka aur yahi time hai bigrne ka apne apko padhai me lagao.Unaki is bat ka isara bhi isi kabhi kabhi isi taraf hi hota hai kyoki un logo ne bhi is problem ko samajha hai unako bhi ye problem hue thi but vo aap logo ko khul ke to kah nahi sakate hai.sabhi log yahi kah rahe hai beta padho lekin koi ye nahi bta rha ki is sex ki problem se student kaise bache.


to friends maine apke sath in problems ko share kiya ab apki aur sabi students ki sabse badi problems ka solution de raha hun. In chijo ko dimag se kaise nikale janne ke liye niche ki tips follow karo---
Agar aap apne life me kuch karna chahte hai to in chijo se bachna hoga.mai apko bas suggestion de sakata hun baki sab apke hat me hai.Apke upar depend karta hai.

1--For Boys

agar aap kisi girl ki traf attract hote hai to aap is attraction se bachne ke liye us girl ko apne mn me sister man lo jab aap esa man loge to apke mn me koi bhi feelings nhi creat honge us girl ke liye.aap ldkiyo se bat karna kam kar dijiye.ladkiyo ki taraf dekhiye mat.Agar dekhate bhi hai to sister mankar.Is taraf aap is attraction se bach sakte ho.

2--For Girls

ladkiya jis ladke ki or attract ho rahi hai use apna brother . Man le jab girl esa kroge to apke man me koi bhi emotion,feelings nahi bnenge us ladke ke liye.ladkiya ladko se bat karna kam kar de.ldko ki taraf dheke hi na.is tarah ldkiya bhi is attraction se bach sakti hai.

kyoki ye time apka gf ya bf bnane ka nahi hai ye time apko study par concentrate karne ka hai taki aap apne success ko pa sake.

Sexual Thinking Se Kaise Bache?

dhyan dijiye jab apke man me koi aim nahi hai to apka mind keval mauj-masti,maje karne ke piche bhagta hai.
or sabse jyada maja achha Gf ya bf se bat karke use kiss karke aata hai ladko ko ya ghumna ya kisi ladki se bat karna.Ya sex ke bare me sochana. [SEX] Agar apko lagata hai ye ahut hi dirty word hai to aap 100% wrong soch rahe hai.Is word ka aur is work ka apke life me bahut hi badi importance hai.Kyoki aap jo paida hue hai isi thinking ke vajah se agar iska attraction nahi hota to aap paida bhi nahi hue hote. Ye thinking wrong nahi hai.but sabhi work ka time hota hai aur ye sab wife-husband ke beech hi better hota hai aur agar students hi apne aim ko chhodkar in sab chijo ke bare me sochane lagenge to ye wrong thinking hai.Ye apke nature me hi hai.Isiliye aap ka mind bhi sex ki taraf ja rahe hai.
aur iska only ek hi solution hai jise aap follow kar isase bach sakate hai.jo ek example se samajhaya gaya hai.

solution:-----

man lijiye apka mind horse hai or us horse par apko baita diya gya  jo iadr udar bhag raha hai or apko kuch samjh me nahi a rha ki kya kare.kaise stop kare horse ko ek direction me kaise le jaye .to apko iske liye lgam ki jarurt hoti hai. 
usi tarah apke mind ko ek direction me le jane ke liye ek burning desire ki jarurt hoti hai.ek aim ki jarurt hai.jab apke mind me ye desire ayega ki muje kuch karna hai muje success hona hai is field me to apka mind puri energy ko us desire ko pane ki direction me lga dega.us time apka mind apke control me hoga or aap jo chahoge vo pa loge.
Finaly
to dosto agar mujse koi galati hue hogi is post me to muje maf karna.aap in chijo ko follow kar apne mind ko ek direction me le ja sakate hai aur apne mind ko khrab chijo se bacha sakate hai.sab apke upar depend karta hai.agar aap better karna chahoge to better jarur kar loge.
to friends agar apko meri ye tips achchi lagi ho to share karna mat bhulna.
aur apko meri post kaisi lagi hame comment me jarur bataye.